Fixership Is Not Relationship

15747554_10209961774334463_2547632673295877320_nFixership is a form of religion, not relationship.
A person with a Fixerships mentality can not enter into the true biblical and kingdom version of relationship with anyone outside of their kind of people. They will tell you, “You are Valuable.” In religion, they will tell you Jesus paid the price for you. But to them personally, you are not worth the cost, the risk that real relationship requires.
It’s not safe. The perceived risk is far too great.
Relationship requires vulnerability transparency and authenticity.
Since everything Kingdom and God flows out a relationship, a person partnering w a fixership mentality simply doesn’t have the capacity to do anything or offer anything other than outreach.

In other words, “you stay in your cliche and I’ll stay in mine.” We can email, say hi in passing or in between the Fixership’s very important busy schedule.

A clear red flag for a fixership mentality:
It’s never enough time
They always have to go.
Fixership offers suggestions without a real relationship.

A person partnering with fixership will tell you what’s wrong with you but they won’t invite you over for dinner and break bread with yoIt’s
Its very distant, very surface, with a smile and I love you.

Fixership is not real relationship.
It’s anti-kingdom and is more about the person fixing than the person they seek to fix.
It’s pride and self idolatry; poor teaching, religion and stuffed or undealt with wounds usually stemming from the lie of worthlessness.

The person partnering with fixership needs as much love and encouragement as the one they seek to fix, so if u run into a person partnering with a fixership mentality, be kind but beware.
They may not know just how lethal their love can be to the heart of another.

Remember Jesus died for them too.
Be love, but stand your ground.
Choice and identity is what you sacrifice when you surrender to a person with Fixerships mentality.

When you have a pot boiled over, scorching with burnt stinkfest, first you have to put a handle on on the pot before you can pick it up.

Defining the counterfeit and anti-kingdom mindsets that call themselves Love is a starting point.
Lets have a conversation.
I’m willing to listen. Are you?

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About heavensfirelove

I walk and live a supernatural life style as my reality. I live to be a conduit of my Fathers love because I understand that the Power of God is real, tangible and very present in our lives today. We all have the ability to see, But I am willing to look? God has shown me the the simple truth that we all have eyes to see. There are many who would say "See What?" Your ridiculous. and laugh away wisdom thinking its foolishness. To those people, I would say God uses the foolish to confound the wise. He calls us to rade our logic (our own understanding) for the more he promises us. So Ive done it. He still wows me in how much He lavishes upon me. Im still in awe of the me He is unveiling. I think to myself, "Wow is that really me?" My prayer to be relentlessly in awe and consumed w the love of God, to be unoffendable and that nothing ever interferes with or comes before my love of, for and with Jesus., God Father, and Holy Spirit. I am a Real Life SuperHero, and becaue He is my suit of armor, Because He lives with n me, His mind, His thoughts, His heart, His eyes and words,I shake up the world like thunder, I color the sky. I am made inhis image, I am an artist, a creator. The words I declare have power and what I speak happens. Though I am different, I am wired for brilliance, a mac in a pc world. I have been blessed to say I have had many great accomplishments. but truth is my greatest accomplishments dont belong to me, the ones that shine- well they belong to my Jesus. I have made a lot of money , spoke in front of important people, had big jobs, owned houses, cars, trucks bulldozers and things but nothing is as great as the treasure of my relationship with Father God, My sweet Jesus, and the Holy Spirit

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